So I've been a little absent. And I want to be honest about why, because "life has been busy" is the kind of thing people say when they don't feel like explaining anything. The truth is simpler and, I think, better. I've mostly just been enjoying my life.
Back in August, I had shoulder surgery. Three months of being essentially useless followed. Now, I thought I was good at being still. I can lock myself down for an entire day with a video game like a freaking champ. Turns out that's different. Because that's a choice. This was not a choice. I got antsy. Very antsy. Eventually the shoulder came back online and I rejoined the human race. Yay.
So from there I coasted for a while in Meg's company. A little of this, a little of that. It's been a dream. Then on Christmas, I proposed. Meg and I have always joked that we're entangled, in the physics sense of the word. Just two particles that, regardless of distance or circumstance, are bound to each other. So honestly, the yes felt less like a decision and more like the universe just confirming what we already knew. On May 10th, I will be promoted from husband-elect to husband. She's very proud of me.
Then January rolled around and we suddenly had a project. Her house needed to be ready to sell, which meant we ripped up her kitchen floor. And yes, we put a new one down. We're not animals. Then we painted pretty much the entire inside of the house. It was a lot. It was also kind of great.
And somewhere in the middle of all of that, I've been quietly working on a screenplay. It's built around one of my old songs, "Did It Wrong." The song is the center of the whole thing, which means I'm going back in to re-record it. There is a table read coming up at the end of May, which is exciting. Actual actors are going to say the words I wrote out loud. And we'll find out if the sentences I wrote sound like words a functioning adult would say.
Anyway! More updates soon. Cheers.

My shoulder surgery recovery team (mom and Meg)

